Fleenor: “We Don’t Want These People In Jail. We Want Payment”
Virginia Department of Social Services
Virginia Department of Social Services’ Child Support Most Wanted poster, which can be found on the internet at; http://www.dss.virginia.gov/family/dcse/2008_most_wanted/index.html
Two of those accused of being among Virginia’s “Most Wanted” child-support evaders call Washington County home. SOUND OFF: What’s the best way to get deadbeat parents to pay child support?
Published: November 17, 2008
Updated: November 17, 2008
Child support tip lines
Virginia Division of Child Support Enforcement: 800-257-9986
Sullivan County, Tenn., Department of Human Services Child Support Office: 423-279-3295
ABINGDON, Va. – Two of those accused of being among Virginia’s “Most Wanted” child-support evaders call Washington County home.
But it’s hard to be certain exactly where home usually is for Rodney Farrell Stanley, 57, and Bobby Joe Cannon Jr., 35.
The local sheriff notes that people sought for past-due payments like Stanley and Cannon – Washington County Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court documents indicate they owe a combined $60,807 – sometimes change addresses several times a year.
“They’re mobile,” Washington County Sheriff Fred Newman said of child-support evaders in general. “They’ll stay at one place for a little while and when support services get hot on their tails, they’ll relocate.”
The bottom line, Newman said, is that time, patience and a lot of luck is needed to track someone running from unpaid child support.
In Southwest Virginia, that luck is needed to collect unpaid and overdue child support valued at nearly $77 million.
Virginia Child Support Enforcement Division statistics show that one in every 11 Virginia children has a parent who refuses to consistently pay. In Tennessee, the state Department of Human Services statistics show that number is one in every 12 children.
In Sullivan County, Tenn., roughly $885,000 worth of child support is due each month, notes the Tennessee Department of Human Services. Of that amount, $522,000, or about 59 percent, is paid sporadically or not at all, according to department estimates. (Similar monthly numbers were not available for Virginia counties.)
“It’s very frustrating when those parents don’t pay because you know there’s a kid suffering,” said Michelle Mowery Johnson, spokeswoman for the Tennessee human services department.
In Virginia, Stanley owes $33,805 for support of a girl, and Cannon owes $27,066 to a boy and a girl, according to state child support enforcement records.
Both men landed on Virginia’s updated list of the top nine offenders in October. The list is as part of a program designed to generate tips on their whereabouts so they can be subpoenaed for court. Being among the top nine doesn’t necessarily mean they are wanted for arrest, only that they have outstanding debts that surpass the child-support norm. However, authorities have issued a warrant for Cannon’s arrest because of his failure to appear in court when ordered.
To make the most-wanted list, noncustodial parents must owe at least $8,000, have missed payments for six straight months, and their case must be in the courts.
Johnson said Tennessee stopped producing most-wanted lists several years ago. With few tips generated, she said, such posters became little more than a tool “to shame [evaders] into paying.”
National fathers and men’s rights columnist Glenn Sacks also questions the effectiveness of the lists. In a telephone interview, Sacks said the lists only hound into hiding many noncustodial parents who want to pay, but are down on their financial luck.
“What happens is they fall behind, they can’t get a modification [reduced payment plan] ... and they get an obligation that they can never pay off,” Sacks said.
Michael McCormick, executive director of the American Coalition for Fathers and Children, said that in those cases, divorced dads are at a huge disadvantage.
“If you’re a husband and you lose your job, nothing happens,” McCormick said. “But if you’re a noncustodial father and you lose your job, the next thing you know you have a real likelihood of being put in prison.”
Eric Fleenor, the acting district manager of the child support division in Abingdon, said arresting fathers is not the objective.
“We don’t want these people in jail. We want payment,” he said.
In the shadows
State child support departments usually find updated addresses by culling through traffic tickets, tax forms and other official records. States also subpoena cell phone records to find parents, or even revoke driver’s licenses for nonpayment. The Tennessee Department of Human Services reports yanking more than 7,000 licenses last year.
Tips generated by Virginia’s recently released list have resulted in authorities netting one alleged evader – a mother living in the state’s Shenandoah Valley region. Wendy Marie Gentry, 34, of Hinton, is listed by the state’s child support services as owing $23,304 to two boys. She is being held in the Rockingham County Jail on a charge of missing a bond payment on a July 2007 arrest. State child support records show that her arrest was on a charge of failing to appear for a child support hearing.
Stanley, pictured on Virginia’s wanted poster with gray hair and deep laugh lines, is listed as a painting contractor with an Abingdon address. His former wife, Sheri Alexander, also of Abingdon, is a retired sales clerk who said she now lives on monthly disability checks due to arthritis and an ailing back.
Alexander believes Stanley might live somewhere other than the address listed on the state’s roster. A Bristol Herald Courier investigation reveals that her hunch might be correct.
Court records have traced Stanley to Georgia and Florida. But Alexander thinks he might have moved into Tennessee, either to Kingsport or Johnson City. She bases her hunch on cell phone records and reported sightings of Stanley motoring through the region in a white pickup truck.
In her opinion, he has become adept at earning an under-the-table living and hiding in the shadows.
“He knows the system very well,” Alexander said.
Their marriage ended 10 years ago, when their daughter, Carly, was 3 years old. Since then, Carly has learned to play the saxophone and has joined her middle school concert band. Her saxophone prowess has earned her a spot with the nearby high school marching band.
“I think she’s very frustrated with the fact that we have a very hard time getting by,” Alexander said.
Stanley still pops up in their lives through sporadic telephone calls and even the occasional child-support check. He paid $700 last year, and mailed a check for $350 earlier this year, according to records in Washington County Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court.
The staggered payments fall short of the court’s orders that Stanley send monthly payments, of about $195.
Alexander believes Stanley intends to pay just enough to appease local courts and law enforcement.
“His terminology to me was, as long as you pay a little bit every now and then, they’re not going to put you in jail,” she said.
Patterns
Wendy Marie Gentry bucks the child support stereotype in more ways than gender. She also falls into the minority circle that owes the majority of the past-due payments.
More than $105 billion worth of past-due payments has accrued since the national child support program began in 1975, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services estimates.
Most noncustodial parents behind on payments owe roughly $5,000, national estimates show. However, they account only for about 6 percent of the total past-due debt.
More than 90 percent of the country’s unpaid child support is owed by a small number of noncustodial parents. Their individual debts often average around $30,000. Based on the amount of their alleged debt, Stanley and Cannon appear to fit that profile. So does Wendy Marie Gentry.
Kenneth Gentry, of Elkton, Va., rarely thought about his unusual parental predicament: He is the custodial father of two boys, and it’s their biological mother who is accused of stiffing child support obligations.
“When I got custody of my boys, I knew it was unusual for a father to get custody,” he said by telephone.
Rockingham County Sheriff’s deputies arrested Wendy Gentry on Oct. 23, slightly more than a week after the Virginia Child Support Enforcement Division pictured her on the wanted list. Tips on her location began trickling in the next day, according to a department news statement.
Since she vanished from their lives, sons, Casey, now 13, and Zack, now 11, have taken up motorbike racing and their father has remarrried.
Kenneth Gentry’s thoughts turn to his ex-wife so seldom that he can’t remember the year of their divorce.
There was a time, however, when her child support payments would have been welcomed. She was expected to pay $296 a month.
“At first, it would have been nice for child care, but through the years I’ve made a life for us,” Gentry said. “To be honest, [receiving child support] doesn’t matter much to me.”
Not every pattern shared by Gentry, Stanley and Cannon point to a deadbeat parent bent on beating the system, noted Sacks, the columnist and spokesman for men’s rights.
Wanted lists “repeatedly” feature noncustodial parents with low-paying jobs. Virginia’s most recent list includes factory workers, a taxi cab driver, a carnival worker and a car salesman, all people who Sacks suggests might never be able earn enough income to pay their familial debts.
“When times are good, you’re working. When times are not, you’re not working,” he said.
Low wages also are a sign of a noncustodial parent who is unable to hire a lawyer savvy enough to convince a judge that dwindling wages should equal lower monthly payments, Sacks said.
“It’s too hard to get downward modification in the child support system,” he said. “With all the hysteria over deadbeat dads, the judges think the guy’s lying or at fault.”
Dead ends
Cannon, who owes $27, 066 for a boy and a girl who are now in college, hasn’t paid child support since July 2003, Washington County Juvenile Court records show. The records also include his arrest warrant on a contempt-of-court charge related to a child support hearing in August 2004.
He is pictured on Virginia’s Most Wanted poster flashing a youthful smile and wearing a tuxedo. The photo looks to be from a high school yearbook.
His ex-wife is a Smyth County, Va., factory worker who requested that her name not be used. She divorced Cannon 10 years ago, and doubts he will ever pay his share of child care. He’s expected to pay $365 a month, she said. And she admits it would help if a check were to arrive in the mail.
“He should have to pay,” she said. “My kids still have a lot of college to go and I’d like to see that through.”
Court records show that Cannon has lived at multiple addresses in Washington County over the years. State child support records give a Meadowview address, but the Herald Courier could not find anyone in that neighborhood who recognized his photo or name.
Washington County General District Court records show that police in Damascus cited him in January on a misdemeanor charge of marijuana possession. He was found guilty in absentia months later, court records show, but has not paid his $250 fine.
On the citation, Cannon cites his home address as Astro Drive in Abingdon. Washington County Emergency Services, which keeps all addresses for 911 calls, does not have an Astro Drive on its maps. Abingdon does have an Astor Drive, and there is a house number similar to the one listed by Cannon. He does not live there, however, the occupants said.
Also leading to a dead end was the Herald Courier’s search for Stanley. He does not live at the Abingdon mobile home park noted in state child support records. Living there instead was a man who looked similar to Stanley’s photograph, sharing the same deep laugh lines. When showed a picture of Stanley, the man simply nodded his head and said: “That’s not me.”
He then produced his own child support papers, which listed a name other than Stanley and a child of a different name.
Stanley’s mother, reached at her Abingdon home, said she rarely talks to her son and, because she was “not under oath,” did not have to share his telephone number and “possible” address.
She promised to pass on the newspaper’s interview request if she happened to hear from him.
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To countryboy46tn: although I have posted on here regarding deadbeat dads and lack of support I want you to know that I sympathize with you regarding this. As said: the system is broken, our tax $ pay people to get money for the state(s) to pay more people to do nothing (Judges etc). I know for a fact, too, that women are not made to pay as men do or to suffer the same consequences. I admire you, as I do any man, who raises his children and KUDOS to you for adopting the one….it is not fair that you are being made responsible for another that is not yours and the laws need to change. Seems as if any woman can go out and cheat..get pregnant and if they are married to someone else and -no matter the circumstances-want to be a heartless B about it…guess who suffers! Good luck and God Bless….
face it we are nothing but a cash cow for va,when something changes,they dont care,all they want is money,either from our pocket or the federal inmate fund, i pay in $300 and the state sent my kids $94,they got there money first,guess the judge or dhs needed new snowtires for there jag… in any other business this would be illegal.
I MUST be honest I feel sorry for the fathers..I am a nurse, I see day in and out how children are used as pawns… DON’T BE SELFISH IF YOU CAN NOT PROVIDE FOR THAT CHILD THEIR IS ALWAYS SOMEONE WHO CAN!! Children are not too be used as pawns against men or the system…
ok here we go (I have been so waiting on this opportunity)
I am a male and My wife walked out on me leaving me raising 2 children alone.
No biggie prefered it that way,I spent 8 years trying to get support to no avail whatsoever,she told them straight up I am not paying and guess what she never did.
When they finally got her into a support hearing (after they were almost grown) the D.A of washington county Tennessee simply said oh well they are grown and we can dismiss this case no backpay no support!!!
I then made the terrible mistake of remarrying and adopting my new wifes child,she cheated walked out got pegnant and I had to wait a year to get a support hearing,meanwhile she runs to DHS gets a check and stamps and guess who gets stuck with the bill,right me,and when my ex asked if they could drop the backpay as I helped when I could guess what he couldn’t do that!
My girlfriend has 2 kids and has been trying to get support for 5 years and her ex stays in jail more than out and they get him up there and the D.A even tried to get him out of jail and do everything he could so he could “pay” his support but he just took off again.
Now he “supposedly” has a warrant but he lives in this area and still running free and still not paying a red cent.
The moral of the story is we are paying these people in the child support office good money to sit around and apparantly do nothing,you can call up there and it takes forever just to get them to answer that phone!
Now if you are a decent human being male or female and dont want to lose your license or have a warrant or go to jail then you have had it,but if you are someone that dont care and it would take a little actual work to get them then you can breeze right through.
When I was raising 2 kids alone they never once took my ex’s license or took a warrant and didn’t even bother to find her until I called and gave them all the info on a silver platter then all they did was break their necks to dismiss my case.
I on the other hand adopt a child and they hound me to death and make me pay backpay because I had to wait for my ex’s child that wasn’t mine to be born to make arrangements to pay and was forced to pay for that also!
I have talked to male and female alike who can’t get their support and the common denominator is if they can sit in the office and do a little paperwork and can threaten you to do whats right and you do it then its all good but if you dont cooperate and it becomes any work at all then thats the end of it you are out of luck!!!
dear hokie 1
I am not one that is abusing the system taking the fathers money to live it up or do drugs. His father left me for another woman, one who WOULD party with him. That was his decision not mine. It was OUR decision to have a baby and when it came to pass he walked out to be with the other woman. I have walked a long hard road, until you can walk in a mile in my shoes keep you thought about me having another child to yourself.
You have NO CLUE what I have been through or over come in the past year. I was beaten and raped and that is where my second child came from. I was told by family to have an abortion or adopt out the baby. I lived in a much warmer climate then and had closets full of summer things….and didn’t need jeans! I escaped the beatings and moved my family here where it is safe.
Safety to my children is the most important! Not my clothing. All I was saying is that most people seem to be critizing the single mom getting a check to support a baby it took both parents to create, and saying that ALL mothers use the money for other things. I was simply saying do not put us all in the same category!
Re read there is also a part about judging people and that you NEVER know how hard someone has it.
...another example of someone saying they dont have anything, taking “child support” and having multiple children…I don’t get it PEOPLE..If you only have 2 pair of jeans too your name, please tell what in the world are you doing having another baby??
Dear opinion8ed1, I don’t think you read all of my comments.I believe both parents should support their child(ren).Unfortunately there are some who don’t on purpose.Then there are others who lose their jobs,get hurt or sick and have little or no money to pay,yet they are threaten with jail even when they show proof of this.And legit ones can’t get a temporary reduction.In fact in our county they are put in jail until they come up with several hundred dollars to put on it plus pay a fine & court costs.How does that help a child?In jail, can’t work or look for work then no money.And you can bet for the court the fines comes first.If back taxes are owed,who do you think would get first dibs?I’m just saying these things should be decided on a case to case basis.And I still say visitation should be handled with support.I’ve seen too many mothers & fathers denied access to their child(ren)even when support was paid.Some custodial parents would claim it was for not paying,others or their new someone wants all physical ties cut except for the money..Some non custodial parents said that was the reason they didn’t pay.Not right, but there you go.If they made this a part of the order it could help.Unless they are really cruel people,they couldn’t turn those children down seeing them.Of course if they were a danger to the children,then NO they shouldn’t have access to them.I’ve seen it from both sides.I was at my mothers’ side when she had to fight for support for my nephew from his mother.But guess what?Except for 1 time his mother got him for visits.The one time was because she didn’t bring a car seat after being told several times to get one because of the hassle of getting moms’ out and back in.As my nephew got older he realized who really cared about him and liked the fact there was no badmouthing about his mom.He learned the truth himself.Then he made the choice not to have contact with her.When a parent is badmouthed by the other family,a child can feel as if they are being badmouthed also cause they are a part of that person.Deep down you can’t change that feeling once it’s happened. By the way my son pays child support for 3 children as he should.He can’t see the oldest because of his ex-girlfriends’ husband.I know this for a fact because I could hear him over the phone demanding to know if my son was there when she brought him to visit us and his great grandparents.If my son was there her hubby would start ranting at her to leave.My son has his other 2 by his wife every weekend,holidays,anytime schools out. But there a few times the children were used as bargaining chips or her boyfriend would decide they had too much to do with each other because he was jealous.That’s why I believe it should be set in the orders that parents partners stay out of the children area.BUT AGAIN I OR NO ONE ELSE IS SAYING DON"T MAKE PEOPLE PAID SUPPORT,JUST BE FAIR TO ALL SIDES! Children will come out on top most every time in a lot of ways.
First let me say that I am a single mother of two children. Alot of work goes into raising children married or not. My children are my world!
I know Sheri Alexander and years ago saw her struggling.She is one woman who puts her children first amoung all things. She worked hard when she could work and is a wonderful mother. It is unfair to her and her daughter. Times are hard for everyone. Not just the fathers with new obligations.
This man, Glenn Sacks, who is for the rights of fathers…...WHO IS FOR THE RIGHTS OF THE CHILDREN??????
And for those of you questioning where the child support money goes…well not all of us single parents are drug users, nor do we have “friends” who eat up our childrens money. The $290 my son gets goes for whatever HE needs! The life of a single mother is hardly glamourous and shame on those of you who think so! All of the work for the children falls on the mother when the father is not at all interested. How is it possible that so many people have misconstrued being a parent? The love, safety and well being of the child should come before anything else. For those who are wondering I have two pair of jeans (wore out) and 2 long sleeve shirts. A borrowed jacket and 1 pair of shoes. I sold all of my jewelry when checks were late over the years to pay for diapers, medicine or whatever my son needed. He on the other hand has a closet running over with clothes, tons of shoes, jackets, loads and loads of books, toys, movies, games. Anything the little fella smiles at… I find a way to make it happen. And my daughter only 8 weeks old, I will do the same.
Children are a blessing, they don’t ask to be here. We should do whatever we can to insure their well being. Every situation is different don’t judge single parents, or the fathers supportive or not, it isn’t your job to do so.
If you see a single parent that looks like they may be having a hard time….how about instead of snickering at the downfall or turning up your nose, open a door for them, pat them on the back, make them dinner, offer support of any kind. Even a friendly conversation can go a long way. Every one has it hard and you never know how hard it CAN be for someone else.
to nuff said,I have seen a lot of the kind of things I wrote about among several people I care about or know.As kids we was lucky because we had some really great family members who cared about what happened to us.The sad part was only one of them was my father’s family.She was married to my mom’s brother.I was 17 when I got to know my paternal grandfather and my father when he was dieing in my 20’s. He didn’t really try to see me till then.In some ways it was my mom’s fault concerning my fathers’ parents.But my dad made the choice not to try. Please allow the bond between the child(ren)and the noncustodial side of the family unless they’re a danger to a child. They need all the family they can get.Don’t let it just be about money.Make it about a bond between parent and child also.Let both parents provide support and love for the chidren.No more games.How will the chidren feel about their parents and their own chidren when they’re grown,if things don’t change for them now.
What state funded agency looks after the ones paying the custodial parent? The system is HORRIBLE!! When you see someone not paying it almost makes me want too tell them too RUN !!! That may sound odd being a product of a split home, but I too was nothing more than a pawn….now look around folks…I am a woman, I beleive as a woman you should not have children unless you ALONE are self-sufficant,married or un-married, and can take care of that child alone or with the support of the father! I have a child, the father and I are now divorced, but we have no order of child-support (we take care of the child as the needs arise), another words…before I agreed too have a child, I made sure I would be able to care for the needs of the child alone, if the father walked out the next morning…THAT IS REASON THEY HAVE BIRTH CONTROL…WITH MOST TYPES THEY ARE ATLEAST 99% “FOOL PROOF”...and at the health dept they are FREE..FREE…FREE!!! No more children as pawns, no need for over paid child support enforcement workers, cut our welfare dept close too 85%...in another words if you are not self-sufficiant KEEP YOUR LEGS TOGETHER..CHILDREN ARE A GIFT, NOT A PAWN, OR A FREE RIDE!!! Trust me, the children REMEMBER!!


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